Today
I am better than I was yesterday, but not as good as I will be
tomorrow. 2011 was a good year; unforgettable, filled with joy,
tears, exciting engagements and heartbreaks all packaged in there;
quite eventful but made me a better and stronger person at the end of
the day.
I
leant a lot in terms of relationships, commitment and sacrifice, but
the most important of these lessons was that you should never take a
good woman for granted, they are very few of them out there and if
you're lucky to be blessed with one, they should be grasped with
both hands.
Otherwise
this is just a summary of bottled up emotions:
-Some
people come into your life as a blessing, and others come into your
life as lessons.
-Some
of the very things that we hold onto the most, are the very things
that we need to let go of.
-The
only person you should ever compare yourself to is the person you
used to be.
-Have
the courage to follow your heart and intuition, take note of all the
“signs”
-A
good relationship can make you stronger. A bad relationship can make
you wiser for next time.
-Life
Is Too Short to Spend Time with People who want to make unhappy, move
on to better... Who Suck the Happiness Out Of You
-Some
people are just bad news. Even if you love them, they aren't good for
your life. Give them time to grow up.
-The
only people you need in your life are the ones who need you in
theirs.
-Don't
wait until you see them moving on to decide you want to try and catch
them.
-If
you know you're in the wrong relationship.. Break Up before you Break
Down.. Life is too short to be unhappy
-Sometimes
in life you need to lose everything you have to appreciate what you
had.
-Never
do something permanently stupid just because you are temporarily
upset.
-Stick
with people that bring out the absolute best in you. :)
-There
comes a point in your life when u realize who REALLY matters, who
NEVER did, and who ALWAYS will.
-Life
is a marathon, not a sprint. So don't rush things, because anything
worth having is worth waiting.
-Nothing
dries sooner than tears. Life can never promise us to be always
happy, but life gets better after you accept things you can’t
change
-Being
in the wrong relationship will have you feeling more alone &
unsatisfied than when you were actually single.
-I
hate the fact that you ignore me for so long, and then you start
talking to me like nothing happened.
-Friends
with Benefits is an amazing idea, till they fall in love.
-Life
is like a taxi ride. You can go wherever you want & do whatever
you want to do, but when the ride is over you're going to have to pay
up.
-Whenever
you feel weak, remember those who make you strong and whenever you
start to doubt yourself, remember those who believe in you.
-Sometimes
we have to fight for what we love and care about. But sometimes we
have to find the strength to let it go.
-Never
expect. Never assume. Never ask. And never demand. Just let it be. If
it's meant to be, it will happen.
-I've
learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care
back.
-You
never lose by loving; you always lose by holding back.
-I'm
strong because I've been weak. I'm fearless because I've been afraid.
I'm wise because I've been foolish
-Never
assume that someone likes you by their sweetness. Sometimes, you are
just an option when they are bored.
-moving
on is NOT about "never looking back", it's taking a glance
at yesterday and noticing how much you've grown since then
-The
truth is everyone's going to hurt you. You just have to find the ones
worth suffering for
-The
most important element of any relationship is COMMUNICATION.
Everything should be shared, never make someone guess or assume.
-Sometimes
being too nice is dangerous; you have to show your mean side once in
a while to avoid getting hurt.
-Some
people are meant to fall in love with each other, but not meant to be
together.
-Sometimes,
it takes a good fall to really know where we stand.
-Can't
call it a real relationship if you feel single
-Remember
never give up on something u really want. It's difficult to wait, but
more difficult to regret...
-One
lie is all it takes for a person to lose interest in you. Best thing
to do is always be upfront, remain real & tell the truth
-The
sky isn't always blue. The sun doesn't always shine. So it's okay to
fall apart sometimes, but always remember to get up again.
-A
wrong relationship will make you feel more alone than when you were
single.
-Never
expect things to happen, it's better to feel surprised than to feel
disappointed.
-Seng'Khathele!
- Dj Euphonic :)
-Never
allow something that doesn't matter because you to lose something
that does....
-Never
call them mistakes, they're lessons. They're there to teach you what
not to do in the future.
-Realize
if you don't put yourself in a place to cheat, chances are you won't
cheat
-I
don't want a perfect relationship. I just want someone who I can act
silly with, someone who treats me well and loves being with me
-Trust
is what a relationship stands on if you don't have trust you aren't
in a relationship....
-One
of the simplest ways to stay happy: Just let go of the things that
makes you sad.
-One
of the best feelings in the world is when you know that you actually
mean something to someone.
-Don't
quit because something went wrong. Quit because you tried your best
and nothing got better!
-Maybe
it's not about fixing something that's broken. Maybe it's about
restarting and creating something even better.
-Sometimes
you don’t realize your own strength until you come face to face
with your greatest weakness.
-Don't
let something that doesn't matter because you to lose something that
does.
-Everybody
has the power to make someone else happy. Some do it by entering the
room, while some do it by leaving.
-Start
everyday with a new hope, leave bad memories behind & have faith
for a better tomorrow.
-When
I give you my time. I'm giving you a portion of my life that I will
never get back. So don't waste it
-No
relationship is worth hiding. If you have to hide your relationship
to be happy....it’s not worth having.
-We
must hurt in order to grow, fail in order to know and lose in order
to gain, because some lessons in life are best learned through pain.
-Never
regret anything that has happened in your life, it cannot be changed,
undone or forgotten so take it as a lesson learned and move on.
-There
comes a point in life where you get tired of chasing someone &
trying to fix everything... but it’s not giving up... its realizing
you don’t need certain people, the bull crap & the drama they
bring!!
-Sometimes
you end up losing yourself trying to hold onto someone who doesn’t
care about losing you
-there
comes a time in life when you have to let go of the pointless drama
and the people who create it
-some
people are like clouds, when they go away, the day gets brighter
-Flirting
while in a relationship is highly disrespectful & while it may
seem harmless, it can be very hurtful to the person that loves you.
-sometimes
being scared is okay, in some cases fear is the only thing that saves
you from doing something you'll regret
-loving;
is when you just want the best for that person whether it includes
you or not
-live
every moment, love everyday; coz before you know it, precious time
slips away
-never
apologise for what you feel, it’s like saying sorry for being real
-Quit
crying over what happened and start praising God over what didn’t
happen :)
-Always
trust your gut feelings and take note of the "signs", ...
#iknewitwasoverwhen
you started being too busy for me, “me-time”
#iknewitwasoverwhen
you needed me I was there for you, but when I needed you, you were
nowhere to be found.
#IKnewItWasOverWhen
I felt single even though I was still in a relationship...you didn't
care anymore.
#IKnewItWasOverWhen
you became over moody & seems very upbeat and excited when
leaving...
#Iknewitwasoverwhen
we couldn't even have a normal conversation anymore.
Life's
TOO short to be stressing' over ANYTHING!
Ponder
points
After
all the tears and heartbreaks, you should learn to pick yourself up
and move on. Life goes on, so should you. Every tear you shed comes
with a hard lesson, and that should guide you from getting into the
same situation again in the future.-BB
Forgiving
people who have hurt you is your gift to them, forgetting people who
have hurt you is your gift to you.
Forget
what hurt you in the past but never forget what it taught you.
Everybody deserves second chances, but not for the same mistakes. If
someone you love hurts you, one of the best things you can do is to
move on and find happiness elsewhere. Don't give them the
satisfaction of seeing you suffer. Let go when you're hurting too
much, give up when love isn’t enough, and move on when things
aren't like before. Surely there is someone out there who will love
you more.
-Yvonne
Tjedu-tjanana Buzwane
